It has been the honor of my kink life. I now have been in service to Mistress Star for nearly 6 months, and I hope it never ends.

I have been a closet bondage kinkster for all my adult life. I opened up about that to a therapist several years ago, and it was obvious she did not understand, made me feel weird. So, I repressed the feelings and tried to sweep them under the rug. It worked for small periods, but the urge was too strong. I would tie myself up several times a week, experimented with cross-dressing, then chastity, and after a while, graduated to an electric cage, the Cellmate II, controlled by the QIUI app, which permits you to give control to the cage to someone else. It felt good, so through the app, kept getting requests from mistresses who wanted to hold my electronic key. I did not capitalize the mistress word because most were not at all mistresses. They were scammers, trying to get me to pay “tributes” and offering very unsatisfactory experiences. While complaining about that on Fetlife, I was contacted by Mistress Star. She explained how she was different than the others and gave me time to explore the Discord server and think about her offer.

I tried the 9-Day chastity lockup service and that is when my whole world turned upside down. Mistress Star spent a lot of time discussing my likes, my wants, my limits, and what she expected from her chastity slaves, and that, frankly, was very refreshing and made me feel good about being her slave. To my surprise, the 9-Day period ended with no requests for extra money and with Mistress Star really interested in my well-being and what my kink goals were. So, by that time, I was hooked. The chastity keyholding is what got me hooked but the domination is what made it feel so good.

I started discussing with her a 3-month commitment, and we soon agreed on a way to make this happen going forward. I ended up being in Chastity for a personal record 3-months, became extremely frustrated and horny, but loved every minute of it. This current 3-month commitment is very different, it is not about chastity, it’s about protocol, about submitting with all the trust you can muster and doing so with no key to enforce it, but very much feeling owned and dominated. For me, it’s become a return to my bondage roots, with tasks that force me out of my comfort zone into the real, in person kink world, against my most engrained instincts, and with the goal of meeting local play partners to explore more. It’s about giving my alter-ego Dan, the professional, the family man, all the space he needs, while ensuring slave bondage’s needs and wants are being attended to. It was confusing at first, and has been hard, I feel an added sense of responsibility to all members on the Discord Server, but I have recently begun to understand the path that Mistress Star has designed for me. It is genius.

Mistress Star is a true dominant, with a sadistic side that appeals to all the submissive instincts that I have, but what comes out most about her, is how much care she gives to ensuring that I experience as much about my kink as I can. All the tasks that she gave me have a goal, they are all geared towards my experiences and growth. Yes, she is tough, she does require respect and punishes bad behaviour, but that is not what her most dominant (no pun intended) trait is. I will let you in on a little secret, she really does care a lot more about her slaves’ well-being and growth than about the services that we provide her. If you’re a BoundBDSM Discord member, I have another secret for you. She cares very much about you too, and about ensuring that your experience on the server is the best that it can be. She is extremely busy and doesn’t spend a lot of time chatting on the server, that is because she works so hard for her stable of slaves. But chatting with all the members is what I think she likes the most.

I will be forever grateful to Mistress Star, when I look back at all the things she has allowed me to experience I cannot believe how much I have grown, and how much I’m looking forward to what is coming up next for me. At Mistress Star’s urging, I am set to meet up with Miss Bella at the Oasis spanking event in Las Vegas on Labor Day weekend coming up. Looking forward to explore my first major event, being guided by Miss Bella, and hoping to experience as much submission as I can, while mingling with like-minded people.

I am very awkward socially, working on that with Mistress Star’s help, and don’t spend as much time on the server as I would like, but please feel free to chat me up when you see me there, I am not very skilled at starting conversations, English is not my primary language, but I really do enjoy chatting away with everyone. Many thanks to all the server members for all the advice and all the help. You allow me to be myself, something I have been unable to do for over 50 years.

Slave bondage is a 66 year old submissive male from Canada, divorced, father, grand-father, soon to be retired I/T professional and looking forward to the future. At your service!